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    Thu, Apr 26th - 2:27PM

    Jugdement 4/26/12

    Today is a good day. It's the day the Lord was made and I well enjoys in it! I want to blog about judging someone. I always tell my family it's not my place to judge. Not a easy task sometime. I got to thinking where does judgement come from? Looking into myself I find that I want to judge someone because (1) They hurt me be it physical or mentally. (2) Due to anger. When someone gets me so mad I start to judge them for every little thing I think they done wrong. (3) Jealousy. I think is the number one reason why we judge. How many time we women see someone with longer legs, nicer hair, prettier face then us and we start finding something wrong about that person. They have a nicer house, better car. Their children get better grades. Judgement comes in many ugly faces. My 2ND granddaughter Cheyanne came home last year from school mad and upset. It seems this one girl would call her names and bully her. No one liked her. I ask my granddaughter if she knew what has going on in this girl home life. She said no I don't talk to her. I told her to talk to the girl, ask her questions; just talk to her as if she was a friend. Come to find out this girl parents were going through a divorce and the verbal abuse between her parents was so overwhelming for her, she took it out of the kids at school. Cheyanne was able to talk to her and found out that she understood about divorcing parents. Cheyanne has only seen her mother 3 times in the last 8 years. Mom lives in California and Daddy had her since she was 3 1/2. This girl realize that even those her parents were divorcing they still loved her and she was lucky that both parents lived here in Tulsa. We never know what the reason for someone else action. We can only deal with our own emotions that cause us to judge. There is always two sides of a coin. Don't judge because someone has told you what they think about someone else. Or by what someone did to someone else. Years ago when I divorced my children father all my friends did not want anything to do with him. They remember the pain I went through after years of mental and at the end physical abuse. At first I was glad they hated him, but after a year of going through the process of grieving I realize with Gods help that the abuse was not my fault. I began to heal and realized that no matter what my ex-husband did to me, he never mistreated my friends and always showed them love and respect. I also came to realize that what he did was not all his fault. I did not pray that he would get better. The person I married was a beautiful person, caring and loving in his own way that God created for a purpose. The bad things in this world over came him. I am glad to report that he has turn his life around, goes to bible studies and reads the Word everyday. We are friends still to this day. So "Don't Ever Judge Someone Because You Don't Know Their Circumstance." (The Days of a Lifetime)

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    Wed, Apr 11th - 10:17PM

    Gods Little One 4/12/2012

    Well the end of the final chapter to my son custody fight. DNA came back not his. There is a saddest over it, but a relief that we finally know the truth. Airabella Skye Bradbury will always be in our hearts. We got to have the joy of a new life enter into our life. We will remember her smile, the spark in her eyes when she heard my son voice. Airabella I hope someday your parents will allow you to know how much my son loved you. How everyday he would play his guitar for you. How he wrote that special song just for you. How he fought hard to get you back to him. How if you were his, he would had died for you. You may never know me as nana, but in my heart I will always be. I pray you will use the gifts that God gives you through out your life. You are so special little one, I hope your parents tell you that everyday of your life. You were our special gift from God if but for a little while. I knew that someday I will get to hug you again if not in this life then in heaven. I love you little one and I'm glad I got to suggest your first name. That I was there to see you at birth and be the first to talk to you. The memory will forever be in my heart. May Gods hand always on upon you. May you be Blessed in all you do. Love Nana (The Days of a Lifetime)

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    Wed, Apr 11th - 9:24PM

    Abundance 4/08/2012

    Hello Everyone It's been a while since I blog. I just didn't have a lot to say. I had to put myself in check again about Love and Forgiveness. Everyone is different and will have a different opinion sometimes. Well if you did not know God finally close the door about our house we had bought six years ago. What a blessing. It seems like while looking for the right place to move to God was working out all the kinks. This whole thing was a test of believing that God would see us through. Holding onto our faith in him, knowing he is always in control. We had to be out of the house by March 30th. Hubby and I did not know if we wanted to buy right off again or rent for a while. Every house we looked at was either too small, wrong neighborhood or no pets. As the 30th approached we still did not have a place. We would call landlords, email craigslist realtor's and we even thought about buying a house that had caught our eyes 2 years ago but we were not ready to sale our home yet. It was back on the market and thought we knew this was a sign from God. For some reason we got no call backs. Since time had ran out for us we ended up moving everything to our oldest son house. I could had at that point in time ask where is God? He knows we are out of time with no place to go. Of course my son offered for us to stay at his place since all our things were already sitting in his garage. Looking at it from the human side nothing had worked the 30th was here the uhaul was due back that same day and no house. Keep in mind God's timing is not ours. That day after we had unloaded the last of our things and returned the uhaul I had errans to still run. On my way back I saw a sign on a duplex house that we had called on but never received a call back. I started to drive by it, but the Holy Spirit prompted me to stop and call. The phone rang and then I got the voicemail. I almost hung up but The Holy Spirit once again prompt me to leave a message. Just as I finished my message a voice interrupted me, it was the owner of the house. He answered my questions about the place and said he had been out of town on business. I ask when we could look at it and he replied as soon as I get there in 15 minutes. As soon as I walked into the house I fell in love with it. We took a application and I ask if we could fill it out right there. Another couple came by to look at it and by time they were done with looking we had the application completed. He had told us he had 20 message on the his phone about the house he had to return. The owner just liked us from the beginning, Gods favor. We talked about retirement and how I hated renting for the fact that the rent goes up. That was one of my biggest worries with our future with a set income after retirement . He told us at that point that deleting 20 messages was easier then making 20 calls. The owner told us that he would never raise the rent and in three years if we would like we could buy both sides of the duplex. We are slowing moving our things in now. The house has 3 bedrooms and 2 bathroom, large front-room with fireplace. All three bedrooms are big so plenty of room for my mother if she choose to live with us, 1800 sq ft. And the best thing of all it is only six house down on the next block of my son house. The grand children can come over on their bikes. Someone recently told me that I did not have a abundance life and that we were not blessed. I asked Father God to show this person wrong and once again he has. John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. Thank You Father God that you are in control of my life. That you will never lead me down the wrong path in life. Thank You for closing the doors that need to be close and opening new ones. (The Days of a Lifetime).

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    Wed, Apr 11th - 9:23PM

    Happy Easter

    Happy Easter Everyone. What a wonderful God we have. That he give his only begotten son for us. Thank You Jesus. I pray everyone had a very blessed day. We spend our day praising the Lord first thing this morning with Rhema. Then we went to our son and daughter-in-laws house around the corner for BBQ. BBQ steak, hamburgers and hot dogs, stuff Easter eggs, beans and potatoes salad. For desert we had banana pudding and chocolate cheese cake. Over all a great day of fellowship with family and friends. Isn't God Wonderful? All the time! Thank You Jesus for all that you did and went through for me and my family so that we can be forgiven of sin and live with you forever.

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    Sat, Mar 17th - 1:47AM

    rough around the edges 3/16/2012

    Well my little Gabryel just turned a year old on the 14th and so did his big sister Cheyanne turned a big 11. My little Airabella will be 4 months old on St. Paddy Day. Time is moving fast. As far as the house hunting is going that's about it going. Hard to find something that right for us and time is running out, deadline March 30th. Now to change subjects on you I've been very upset that so many Christians have such narrow minds. They go by what they hear and don't bother to check out all the facts. Sometimes we all put our blinders on and this includes myself. I've come to realize that when my book gets published it may out be for some friends. I guess it 's can be hurtful, but only if I choose to let it. I don't! We are at a time when Satan is going to try to turn us Christians against each other. I'm not going to give him the satisfaction. I would like to give the definition on the word prosperity=1. successful, flourishing, or thriving condition, esp. in financial respects; good fortune. Other Synonyms:abundance, accomplishment, advantage. Many Christians feel we should not have prosperity. That is they're choice,but we should study what the Bible says: Deuteronomy 28:11 And the LORD will make you abound in prosperity, in the fruit of your womb and in the fruit of your livestock and in the fruit of your ground, within the land that the LORD swore to your fathers to give you. Deuteronomy 28:10-12 (in Context) Deuteronomy 28 (Whole Chapter) Did not Abraham prosper? How about David and Jacob? John 10:10 English Standard Version (ESV) 10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. People like to pick and choose words and versus. There is so many other versus. There been a lot of talk about pastors who have prosper finances from book selling. How they should give their money to the poor and outcast of the 3rd world, I agree that we all need to offer what we can, but how much out of your income do you give (none or very little?) I don't see to many news reports from the Christian media about the actors or athletes who are Christian and their millions. My husband says if Christians judge other Christians God will judge you for only he can judge the hearts and sole of others. As for us we don't know what they give, only they accountant knows. They have been good stewards of their money and God has rewarded them so. Prosperity to me is Blessings from God. Family, friends, wisdom, knowledge and money that Father God gives freely. Thank You Father for creating me to be the apple of your eye. For all I have and the Blessings that are to come. (The Days of a Lifetime)

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    About Me

    Name: doreen brunson
    ChristiansUnite ID: justsomdignity
    Member Since: 2012-02-28
    Location: tulsa, Oklahoma, United States
    Denomination: nondenominational
    About Me: I'm a believer that God is everything, in everything, and around everything. I love writing be it poems, books, or blogs. My ministry sterms from the belief that all humans deserved to have just some dignity. My husband and I have 3 grown children ... more

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