We all go through a tremendous problem with trying to find good relationships, and in particular good spiritual relationships.  When I speak of a spiritual relationship most people think of a rather stayed relationship that we tend to form with God, but in truth that isn't the only kind of spiritual relationship that we need to understand or know about.  A very big part of any relationship with anyone is in understanding ourselves.  We cannot be honest with other unless we can first of all be truthful with ourselves.  It is also true that we cannot be a complete person without understanding and having some connection with the whole person that we are; that includes the connection we need to have with our spiritual side as well as the physical side.  We cannot have that complete connection in any relationship unless we can touch another persons spirit as well as their physical person.  The base truth about us is that we have been created to be both spiritual and physical people, and when we deny that first and most important part of who it is we are we live as only half a person.  That carries through to other people as well, and no matter how hard we may try to ignore that side of us we will never fully be happy as people until we make that connection.

    I spoke somewhat last time about absolute truths and how there are things that we cannot get around as being true.  Hot and cold, Dark and Light, sharp and dull, life and death, and Spirit and Physical  are all a part of those absolute truths.  There are also other things that are just as much a part of that group of absolute truths like Eternity and temporary.   For some people the idea of Eternity, and God as our creator has never been a part of your Absolute Truths, and yet as we look around us we cannot deny the existence of permanent as it compares to temporary things of this world.  When we begin to think in terms of relationships with others we see how that works too.  We know that for some relationships there is no more than a casual draw or temporary draw to another person based upon the needs of both at the time, but there is also a very solid and permanent connection for us with others that we long to have.  It is those kinds of relationships we tend to think of as "Soul Mate" relationships, and they become the most important ones of all to us.  The reason for that is because our spirit gets involved as well as our body in that relationship.  When I begin to speak with you about that kind of thing it is important that you take the time to assess the truth about how you have dealt with you first and then other secondly.  You see my friend you cannot successfully  have an absolutely truthful relationship with anyone else...not even with God until you have become completely honest with yourself.  That is yet as you will learn another Absolute Truth.  I really want for you to think about that for a bit until we are together again.  May you richly bless God through your life in Him;



The Unworthy Servant