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          The Second Man is another title for an assoc. Pastor. I have served as a second man since 1972 and serve under some great pastor.

          To be a Second man is the highest calling for an assoc. pastor. Not just anyone can be a second man

    Wed, Jun 13th - 7:26PM

    Being The Second Man



    Being The Second Man
     Rev. Daniel Thrower
     
    The Lord never called me to pastor a Church. But He did call me to serve as an Assoc. Pastor ( The Second Man). I have serve in this area of the Ministry since I was Ordain in 1975. Being the Second Man is one of the greatest fields a person can become. Take a look at the watch you are wearing, What do you see? You see the face, this is the pastor now think about the part that you do not see, (the parts that make the watch run) this is the second man. Without the working parts the watch could now run. The Second Man is always in the background helping the Pastor to do his job and helping the church to run smoothly. Even tho the Second Man does not get much recognization he is doing a vital part of God's work and keeping the Pastor lifted up. 
     
    Here is a article I came across that will help explain the job of the Second Man better.
     
    Helping to lead a church can be easier when you're the senior pastor than if you're serving in a subordinate role. As a "second chair leader," you may have lots of good ideas and plenty of enthusiasm, but not much power or authority.

    That doesn't mean you can't successfully influence your church for the better, though. In fact, you can help improve your church at every level through wise leadership, even when you're not in charge.

    Here's how you can lead well while serving in a subordinate role:

    * Develop strong relationships. Realize that your primary strength as a leader won't come from your job position, but from the relationships you build with others throughout your church. Work to build relationships marked by trust and respect. Expect that your influence with other people will help you add value to your church as a whole. Know that your contributions as a leader are vital to help your church perform well.

    * Deal with the subordinate-leader paradox. Manage your relationships well. Understand that your church's senior pastor is not your adversary. Know that you can accomplish a great deal if you work together well. Understand the line that defines which decisions you can make without consulting the senior pastor, which ones require his approval, and which you shouldn't even approach on your own. Earn the senior pastor's trust and work with him as a team player. Support him through your loyalty and encouragement. Keep him informed of all significant issues or undertakings as they come up.

    * Deal with the deep-wide paradox. Manage your work habits well. Recognize that, while your specific role in the church is likely narrower and deeper than that of the senior pastor, you still need to have a broad, organization-wide perspective. So you need to balance the details of your job assignment with the big picture of all that's taking place at your church. Understand that you can't make isolated changes that won't affect the status quo at your church; a change in one aspect of your church will ripple through the rest of it. Ask lots of "why?" and "what if?" questions to gain a more complete understanding of your church's organizational dynamics. Always think of the congregation's needs ahead of any specific tasks. Try to identify gaps that aren't being addressed by others and consider how you can help fill them without being unduly intrusive.

    * Identify opportunities every day. Be on the lookout for opportunities to cultivate influence in your church. Nurture your relationships with others there to earn credibility with them. Pray regularly for the ability to make wise decisions. Be patient, consistent, and persistent as you go about your daily work. Try to step back from every problem and view it through the lens of leadership, keeping your church's overall needs in mind. Maximize opportunities you have to be part of the solution, such as when an important decision needs to be made, a new ministry initiative launched, or a voice of faith is required in a time of crisis. Have the courage to make difficult decisions, and don't back down from what's right, even in the face of challenging circumstances.

    * Embrace the right attitudes. Submit to God's ultimate authority in your life. Pursue service, being willing to help out even when it's inconvenient or when the task isn't something you want to do. Be thankful for your church, the people in it, and the opportunities you have to work for God's kingdom. Be honest. Give your best to every task you undertake, working with passion toward the goal of excellence.

    * Be a team player. View all your fellow church workers - staff members and lay volunteers alike - as equally vital parts of a team working toward the common goal of what's best for your church. Be selective about the issues you comment on. When you do speak, be affirming, offering two positive and encouraging comments for every one criticism. Be unselfish, considering the needs of your church and coworkers and making sure that your recommendations don't always benefit you. Be discreet about when and where you criticize others; try to do so in private, one-on-one meetings. Be constructive when you share ideas. Be as involved as possible in working toward solutions you recommend.

    * Take the pulse of others in your church. On a regular basis, get to know what other people in your congregation are thinking and feeling.

    * Amplify your church's vision. Although the senior pastor is the one who primarily casts the vision, you can repeat, clarify, and reinforce it.

    * Multiply leaders. Make it an ongoing priority to identify and recruit other leaders who can help achieve the vision.

    * Fill gaps. Be prepared to fill gaps when there is no other leader who can serve in critical roles.


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    Wed, Jun 13th - 7:22PM

    Welcome



    Welcome to the "Second Man" Blog

    here you can find some information about the second man and also feel free to post any comment you may have on this subject that can help others in this calling



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    Wed, Jun 13th - 6:56PM

    Welcome to your Blog!




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    About Me

    Name: Daniel Thrower
    ChristiansUnite ID: 2ndman
    Member Since: 2007-06-13
    Location: Roxboro, North Carolina, United States
    Denomination: Independent Baptist
    About Me: I am 69 years old, Been in the ministry since 1972 serving as the Second Man under the Pastor. Been Married for 45 years.

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