Fri, Mar 7th - 2:34AM
Forgive and you shall be forgiven
No one deserves to be loved. We love because He first loved us. Learning this helps me understand why the Lord commands us to love others just as He has loved us. The basis of our love is not because one deserves to be loved but because we have been commanded to love. Loving others is a command from our Lord. He says He will measure our love for Him by how much we love our brothers and sisters. It is upon this that even the unbelievers will know that we are His disciples and that He was sent from God. Knowing this settles matters when your friends hurt you. You will not be quick to hate them because you know neither of you deserves to be love. We therefore dont love people on the basis of what they have done for us but because we desire to share the love God has given us with them irrespective of whether they hurt us or not. It is not easy to love those who hurt you. I know that very well. Last year but one I broke up with a man I thought would be my husband. He just called it quits and denied ever wishing to marry me. I was deeply hurt. For months I struggled with the idea of forgiving him and myself. I first of all felt stupid , foolish and a nobody. How could I face Him and tell him, ' You hurt me by doing this......but today i forgive you.' It was not after I got the revelation about God's love for me that I chose to forgive that man. Today am a free bird. Love is patient, it is kind, is doesnt keep a record of wrong, it is not easily angered..,..etc. This and more in 1corinthians 13 describes what true love is. In case you are struggling with unforgiveness , you can ask God to reveal to you His love by reading that scripture or by reading about the death and ressurrection of Jesus. If you love Jesus you will forgive that person however deep they hurt you. And remember we love because He first loved us. Dont forget the Lord Jesus Christ tells you unless you forgive others He will not forgive you. You definately dont want to go to hell! Princess Ritah
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